Hi friends,
(Do you think I am able to be your friend?)......ha ha ha...
Today I'm giving you an advice that is critically important for
anyone trying to convince their partner to change in some way. Are you trying to change your Mr. Right's mindset so that he may forget his ex? Then this post is for you please read........
No one in this world likes to feel as though they're being forced into doing
something against their will. You may be one of them. Are you? So it's puzzling to me why so many dating courses advise women to use ultimatums as a method
for getting their guy to change. Do you think ultimatums work? No, I do not agree with you. Why?
Ultimatums just don't work!
There are better options and one of much better approaches loving guidance and teaching.
Men are more open to change when this method is used. Just
be sure you're not trying to change who he is as a person. That
rarely ends well.
It's one thing to want a behavior to change, it's something else
entirely to want him to change what defines him as a unique
individual.
It can be difficult to "make" a man do something you want him to
do, like change a behavior, but he's usually receptive to being
"taught" how to do it.
why ultimatums are such a poor choice if you're hoping to change
something about the relationship.
It's also important to know the difference between trying to change
a behavior you don't like, such as texting his ex-girlfriend during
dinner, and trying to change who he is, like making him give up
that girlfriend.
relationship, he sincerely wants to please you. But it's unfair of
women to think that men automatically know what that means. It's up
to each woman to guide her man and teach him about the things that
make her happy and forget his ex girlfriend.
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